Okay it's true: our community is small. If live in the gay area of a gay city, take three steps out your front door and you're liable to run into in your ex (blech) or your therapist (ulgh) or worst of all, your ex with your therapist (insert retching sound here). So where do you go to meet other eligible lesbian-type folks that aren't overly intimately acquainted with your therapist/ex/ex therapist/pet groomer etc?

Simple. Go to pride. But not pride in your city (see above) or pride in another city with Too Much Attitude To Talk To Someone They Don't Know (San Francisco, New York). Nope go to another, not as cool, smaller city where you will be Much Appreciated Fresh Meat.